Paul answers questions regarding marriage which the Corinthian believers sent to him. He explains that a mutual, consensual sexual relationship between a husband and wife strengthens the marriage and combats the sexually immoral temptations found in the city of Corinth. It is not spiritually superior to be celibate; God designed sex for marriage. Unless the husband and wife agree with each other to abstain for a limited period of time to devote to prayer, it is dangerous to withhold sex from one’s spouse because it opens the door to temptation. Paul is himself single, and remarks that it is easier for him to focus on God by being single, yet the single life is not for everyone.

He notes that unmarried believers in the Corinthian church don’t need to feel like they have to get married. Being unmarried is a good state to be in; Paul himself is not married. But for the person who desires a sexual relationship, it is better for them to get married instead of falling into temptation and sexual immorality. Nor should married people get divorced; God hates divorce and commands against it.

From his own personal counsel, Paul instructs the believers who are already married to stay with their spouses if they are a believer but their spouse is not. Their faith and example can benefit their spouse, potentially leading them to faith in Jesus too. But if an unbelieving spouse ends the marriage, that is permissible; the believing spouse has not sinned.

God can use our example no matter what station we are in. God is aware of the circumstances of our lives and is not limited by them. For Gentile believers, there is no reason to become circumcised like their Jewish brethren. For the slave, they are not lesser is status in God’s church. They can still serve God’s purpose in their indentured circumstances. But if there is a way to become free, then be free. We are all Christ’s slaves, all serving His purposes. Wherever we are in life, we should seek to serve God, not worry about changing our social status or climbing the ladders of men.

Paul speaks from his own insight. Since the Corinthians are presently enduring an undisclosed crisis, it is practically safer for everyone to stay put in their relationship status. If married, then remain married and devoted. But if single, perhaps it is better to remain single during this present trying time. For unmarried women, they may find it easier to serve the Lord and forget the cares of the world if they stay unmarried. But there is nothing wrong with getting married. Paul is not ordering anyone around, only giving advice. If fathers want to give their daughters away in marriage to provide for their future, then do so.

These are culturally contextual pieces of advice. The general principle is that believers are free to make choices; Paul is exhorting them to gain spiritual wisdom to guide them in making the best choice.